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Wednesday, August 19, 2015
To know about breathing
More oxygen the better is not
always true. It is the adequate quantity of oxygen and Carbon Dioxide that is
ideal to keep you healthy. Even oxygen in excess it can lead to
hyperventilation which will create oxygen wastes with reduced supply of oxygen
to cells and if less the cells will be deprived of the vital ingredient for proper
metabolic activities
Advanced Pranayamas have become a
fad. One should learn the act of proper breathing first before moving on to the
advanced ones (which will have to be based on the individual’s requirements)
Forcible exercise of muscles
involved in breathing is most of the time unnecessary so we should always learn
to respond to the requirement of the body and learn to breathe accordingly
Breathing in empty stomach is a
must as the full stomach seriously hinders complete breathing practice
Breathing consciously but
effortlessly, several times a day helps in correcting your breathing pattern.
With regular practice our regular breathing pattern will change for the better
Keeping the spine erect creates
more space inside for deeper breathing
Practicing mudras like Chinmudra or
Samana Mudra will enhance the effectiveness of the breathing
Diaphragm is always used in breathing (unless one is suffering from paralysis)
and only we should learn to use it efficiently. So it is always diaphragmatic
breathing
It should not be misunderstood
that belly breathing is the only correct method. In the process of breathing many
muscles are involved and abdominal shape will increase or decrease along with
increase or decrease of both thoracic volume and shape. So simple deep
breathing will almost automatically exercise all the muscles of respiration
In rest your body does not need
extra supply of oxygen as metabolic activity will be at its low. So again, listen to the needs of the
body. When it needs excess supply, all the muscles and organs involved in
respiration pep up their activity and more of oxygen intake is ensured and when
rest, opposite will be the need and body’s response as well
We actually need to train the respiratory
organs to expand or contract to its fullest capacity, hence the need for deep
and conscious breathing practices
As the breathing speed is conversant
with (in a healthy breathing pattern) metabolic activity, unexplained breathing
speed means trouble or body is trying to bring back the disturbed order. When
it is consciously done (this increase or decrease in breathing speed and
volume), the aim should be to acclimatize lungs and other organs involved in
respiration to respond better to the changing environmental stimuli and not at
changing the normal pattern itself
As a conclusive point, it is like
you are being given a powerful weapon to protect yourself but you should be diligent
enough to handle it and use it properly else it can prove lethal
Shekhar TV
Vibronics Healer
Wednesday, August 12, 2015
Pregnancy is Natural…!
Birthing is
a normal phenomenon which is happening every minute on this earth. The women’s
body, cells and genes are flooded with more information than all the researches
put together regarding natural and normal birthing. So if allowed and properly
supported without interfering with the normal process which is spontaneous, the
whole pregnancy period can be a real pleasure.
Yoga has a
very meaningful prescription for a healthy pregnancy. If we had maintained the
body and mind in its proper, healthy status there is no cause for concern. But
as we have failed in this aspect, we need to re-adjust our living style to cope
with the pregnancy requirements.
Women are
unnecessarily anxious, worried, fear stricken about such a natural phenomenon.
If we observe, nothing about pregnancy is to be manually handled other than
initiating the process. Once the process is triggered, the body knows where to
deposit the fertilized egg, the body knows how to form the baby’s organs, knows
how and when to bring baby to life, knows what kind of food it requires during
different phases of pregnancy, knows how to redistribute the nutrients to nourish
the baby and the mother as well, and it also knows when it is the right time to
send the baby out of the womb.
Taking the
major part of pregnancy into account we have hardly anything to do but listen
to the body’s signals, only to fulfil the responsibility of supporting such a marvellous
phenomenon. The modern approach to
pregnancy is more aggressive than friendly and caring. Most of the time caring outfit
the hospital personnel wear on their faces is only to keep the patient with
them and not with a genuine concern about wellbeing of the patient. It is very
important to make the women believe in herself and her in built capabilities
than to unnecessarily burden her with useless pathological information and
implications etc. and her caretakers with extortionate hospital bills.
If, at home,
the ignorant myths held by the people near and dear about pregnancy, are
spoiling the ease and comfort of the very pleasant journey for the expecting
lady, many doctors are unnecessarily inducing fear for the financial benefit of
the organization they are working for. Unnecessary rests are advised;
unnecessary dietary regulations are imposed and excessive food is fed which not
only takes away the emotional freedom of a would be mother but also severely
hampers her mental peace and physical fitness. People taking care of the pregnant
woman should never feed her anxiety (which is not called for in the first place),
instead make sure she carries on her normal activities but with little extra
caution.
All these
millions of past years the so called specialized doctors did not exist to take
care of the baby or the mother but still the population spur could hardly be
controlled! Interfering with a natural process has been a serious flaw in
modern medical approach. On special occasions which warrant medical
intervention, it certainly is wise to approach a well-qualified doctor but not
and never otherwise. It will be a wise practice if pregnant women keep the
visit to the doctor at a bare optimum requirement and never more than that.
Simple
things to know during pregnancy can be;
·
Just be your
natural self
·
Remember nothing
untoward or nothing which your body cannot take is happening to you
·
Keep in mind
that You are loving this process and you are having it willingly
·
Your body
has all the information required from zygote formation to the birth of a baby
·
Your body is
your first doctor, so listen to your body. It gives you indications from time
to time about what it needs.
·
Just support
your body and fulfil its requirements just like when you feel hungry you eat,
when you feel thirsty you drink water etc.
·
Rest when
your body says it needs rest otherwise pursue normal activities
·
When you
feel energetic to work then work to your heart’s content
·
Working and
keeping agile can improve the berthing experience and ease the labour
·
Do pranayama
regularly as more oxygen is required to be deliberately taken in. Owing to the
restricted expansion of lungs due to increased size of the womb normal
breathing will not suffice
·
Be careful
that you are not straining your muscles and ligaments while doing pranayama
(which is nothing but simple, complete and slow breathing)
·
Until and
unless you are already proficient in advanced pranayama practice you should not
practice variants of pranayama.
·
Precisely
speaking simple, deep, effortless breathing several times a day is all that is
required
·
Do simple Yogasanas
(prescribed by learned Yoga instructor) as per your needs and without extending
your limits. This keeps your body flexible, strong and healthy
·
Eat slowly chewing
the food well and eat normally. As the popular myth goes you don’t have to eat
for the two.
·
While eating
concentrate on the process and not watch TV or read anything during eating as
this practice can make you miss the valuable signals from the body.
·
Know for
sure, food is all that has transformed into you and transforms into your baby
·
Do not
listen to harsh music as it can send jerks through your nervous system creating
agitation within
·
Avoid conflicts
and arguments with the fellow members of the family as it can seriously
compromise your mental peace
·
Meditating
at least 20 minutes in the morning and 20 minutes in the night can be a very
great healing and rejuvenating practice
·
Simplest meditation
could be
v
Sitting in a
comfortable posture
v
Sit idle for
2 minutes
v
Close your
eyes
v
Start observing
your breath
v
Be aware of
the coldness of breath while inhaling
v
Be aware of
the warmth of the exhaled breath
v
Do this for
10-20 minutes
v
Open your
eyes slowly
v
Lie down on
a flat surface and do Shavasana for 10 minutes
Any natural
phenomenon is bound to be wonderful, requiring less effort and very pleasant. With
the necessary preparation of your emotions you can have the best of experience
with the life’s most miraculously joyous journey.
Happy and wonderful
birthing….!
-Shekhar TV
Vibronics Healer
Thursday, July 9, 2015
Diet - The Facts to Know
The
Diet
The common misunderstanding about diet is
what to eat daily and how much? The body
is made in such a way that it can digest any edible food if taken in proper
proportions is another theory which is misleading. The fact is it is not how much it is not what
you eat and it is not when and how much you eat that matters. It is how eat
that matters most. Actually most of us do not know how to eat food. Only after
we know how to eat we can concentrate on what to eat and then how much to eat
and then when to eat.
The first and foremost requirement is
emotionally how comfortable you are during food intake, what is your posture, what
is your company. The body is more receptive to anything we take in only when
you are emotionally fit and comfortable. We need to be in a pleasant state of
mind, happy and never in a hurry while taking food. We must know how to enjoy
food to the fullest. Take food with absolute acceptance and high regard. Even
the most satvic food turns tamasic if eaten with bad temper or disturbed mind and
vice versa. Finally as the common saying goes, the food that we have taken is
what we are!
And the next most important physical
requirement is proper chewing of the food. The most part of digestion happens
while chewing… thereby reducing the burden on the stomach. Postural comfort is
also of utmost importance to enable the stomach, intestines and other digestive
organs to function normally. Quantity of water along with food also plays a
crucial part in proper digestive process. Excess or too little water will not
help good digestion. Optimum water intake should be ensured so that body does
not feel uncomfortable in any way. Keep the body well hydrated and even water
should not be taken in excess as anything in excess is a burden to the organs.
Then comes quantity. As per the popular
Ayurvedic prescription 1/4th
of the stomach should be empty. But how to measure it? The simple rule is if
you feel energetic after food the quantity taken is not in excess and is
optimum. The excess food taken requires stomach to function more vigorously
which calls for excessive amounts of blood supply to stomach and reducing
sufficient blood supply to some other organ in the body. The whole process of
improper blood supply begins here and all the organs in the body are not kept
nourished as required. Stomach has a very strong acid in it which can digest
anything taken into it provided the food taken is not in excess which
drastically reduces its efficiency.
With regards to what we have to eat: Now the
recommendations come into picture. If all the above requirements are met with
then we have time to bother about selection of food. Eat anything that you like
genuinely and make practice of eating all kinds of food particularly
vegetarian. But the simple rule again is moderation. Do not take anything in
excess. Spices, salty, bland, acrid, sweet, fat anything can be digested if
taken in moderate quantities and yoga practised regularly.
Shekhar TV
Vibronic Healer
Friday, June 26, 2015
True Healing
Simply healing…!
-Shekhar TV
Vibronics Healer
The life is all
about simple living…is it so? If yes, the following words shall be worth
considering. But how many of us want to be simple? And if we do not want to be
simple, the question arises why we do not want to be simple. Simplest of answer
could be “it is because the moment the word simple is uttered it is misunderstood
to be something other than its inherent quality”.
Keeping the misunderstandings
apart, being simple doesn’t mean…
·
We have to lead a life without
luxury
·
Life without enjoying the
riches
·
Life without being rich
·
Living in accordance only with
ancient prescriptions for living
·
Not adopting even the positive
aspects of modernization
·
Life without the comforts
offered…
And after all it
is only about how we program our mind to look at things, accept the facts or
reject them, our likings, disliking, relationships, and just about everything
that we do, how we are, the way we live is all and is only because of continuous
programming of our mind since the day we entered the mother’s womb). It can be
noted that
Ø
Luxury will not rob you of your
health but the unquenchable drive to lead a luxurious life will
Ø
Enjoying the riches will not
kill your health but expecting the riches to come to you beyond your
capabilities to earn will
Ø
Utilizing the comforts will not
take away the health but becoming lethargic definitely will
Healthier growth
happens when desire has arisen out of need and not greed. The true art
of detachment (again not to be misunderstood to stay away from everyone,
everything, which is of course not mentioned even in the most sacred Vedas)
in spite of being attached to everything in life about which we are supposed to
be working with, interacting with or associated with naturally blossoms
simplicity in us. And that simplicity will bring us the most inherent
happiness, health and wealth that we truly deserve. Such a detachment is
possible only when we give due importance to ourselves. We normally fail in
this regard, as undue importance is always given to the self.
As we sow and
plough…so shall we reap…expect nothing more nothing less.
Extending our
limits to achieve anything in life should have its root in dedicated
perseverance and devotion to the subject at hand and not in greedy future
prospects. We have to be workaholic and every time we should test our new
limits in achieving any positive goal either set by our own self or forced on
us by the society we live in and learn and train our mind constantly to accept
gracefully, the results of the dedicated efforts put forth. In general the
results of our efforts are directly proportional to our intelligence level, our
approach to the goal, our focus on the goal, practicality of approach, our
clarity of thought, passion, perseverance and many more influencing external
factors.
Leading life to
the fullest is a responsibility we cannot afford to evade. In the name of
simple living we should not lead an uninteresting or a meaningless life. Every
moment in our life should be bubbling with energy and enthusiasm to work for
the betterment of the self, good of others, to work for a noble cause, to work
towards betterment of the society, idea, personal health and to work towards a
healthier society.
That is what is
given by Lord Shrikrishna in Bhagavadgita, the most sacred philosophical
treatise given to mankind for the first time, as “Karmanye vadhikarasthe maa
phaleshu kadachana…!”
The thinking
that I have a serious problem is a strong root of the problem. Everyone
considers naturally that he is important. Everyone thinks his problem is very
strange, very important and very big. Nobody ever looks at a problem from a
neutral point of view or with a practical approach. Almost everyone glorifies
the problems especially related to one’s health and wealth. Almost at some
point of time or the other, everyone wants to be either sympathized or feels
very great of himself to claim supremacy and emotional independence (which usually
doesn’t exist). Anything emotionally exaggerated other than blissful state of
being naturally happy leads to some state of illness which can take shape based
on the immunological buildup, environmental make up and circumstantial
influence on the individual concerned.
The simple
outlook towards healing lies in the following:
1.
Live in the present
2.
Learning to be happy at simple
things in life
3.
Learn to be just analytical and
inquisitive about a problem or a solution
4.
Stop being desperate about the
results
5.
Never have illogical
assumptions
6.
Never expect fantasized
miracles (miracles are already happening every moment in our life learn to
notice them)
7.
Learn to listen to your body
(most important)
8.
Learn to satisfy your ego but
never feed it
9.
Finally as everyone knows but
hardly follows, keep your body fit and flexible through regular practice of
properly learnt, inexpensive but truly effective effortless and enjoyable yogic
methods
If the above
simplest of rules are followed confidently, the stress level, the disgust, the animosity
and the excessive anxiety will naturally evanesce.
Live in the
present
How many of us
are living in the present is a very funny but a million dollar question! We are
either over concerned about the future, making plans to secure our tomorrow
(which currently does not exist) or disparate about what is not done in the
past (which has already died and ceased exist). Learning from the past mistakes
should prove to be a welcome experience and not a burden on our psyche. Setting
a goal for the future should also be scientifically, practically based on the
present scenario as well as proper understanding of the available resources. Avoiding
excessive concern about the goal for tomorrow is a key to stress free living.
We are bestowed
with psychic faculties to handle situations in life properly and the improper
use of them has become the menace of present generation. In pursuit of our
goals we have to make use of the necessary faculties like passion, excitement,
dedication, perseverance etc. while not exercising hindering emotions like disgust,
desperation, undue urgency. We have to make it a habit to live today healthily
and happily to lay an optimal foundation for better tomorrow.
There is not
more potent Elixir to keep us happy and healthy than this attitude of living in
the present.
Learning to
be happy at simple things in life
If we remember
our childhood or if we look at children having a necessary freedom of
expression, we can see how happy they are at the most simple things in life. Children
are naturally happy. They do not have exaggerated expectations and they enjoy
at least when they get what they want without being unnecessarily logical,
skeptical or self-restrained. They just let the happiness flow. How can we ever
forget such a wonderful faculty of being simply happy? We do not have to learn
to be joyful because such a capacity was always there in us since our birth. We
only have to come out of our ignorance, we have to get rid of our false
prestige created by our faulty grown up image within. In the name of maturity
we have stopped appreciating simple favors, in the name of growth we have
forgotten to show simple gestures, with a logical mind we failed to experience
subtle realities of life and with an insatiable greed we have failed to
acknowledge the beauty of true life and relationships. Such uncalled for
impositions on ourselves will prevent us from being naturally happy. A simple
saying “happiness is the reason for glowing health” can never be ignored.
Learn to be just analytical and inquisitive about a
problem or a solution
Let us take an
example of having an irritable bowel syndrome which repeatedly bothers the
current generation. A person affected with IBS will have lot of stress, he
thinks he needs to consult a doctor and in most of the cases doctor fails to
give him any relief (IBS has become one of the most challenging problems for
the modern medicine). As it progresses more than the threshold of tolerance of
the person affected, the patient begins to panic, becomes more irritable, and
becomes more desperate for cure and in his desperation moves from one doctor to
other but in vain.
Irritable bowel
syndrome or spastic colon is a symptom-based diagnosis. It is characterized by
chronic abdominal pain, discomfort, bloating, and alteration of bowel habits.
Diarrhea or constipation may predominate, or they may alternate (as per the definition).
It has been understood that this condition has no organic cause and is more
likely to occur due to altered thinking (though the patient is unaware of it)
or altered interaction between brain and gastrointestinal tract.
When we say IBS
has its root in the brain it becomes obvious that somewhere something has gone
wrong as far as our thought process is concerned and the corrective action
should more obviously begin from where it originated. So panic and desperation
won’t help. All that is required is a cool headed approach to the impending
cause.
Once the
cause is found, the mystery is half solved.
Stop being
desperate about the results
Once you learn
to be analytical and practical there will not be any room for desperation.
Desperation is a result of our inability to foresee a solution or expectations
beyond our capabilities or above the resources available at our disposal or greed
for much more than what we deserve. As scientific as it is, action begets
action, grossly in line with our efforts, our knowledge and other influencing
factors (most of which can be predicted). Having said so, it becomes obvious
that the results largely depend on our own capabilities and not on luck or
overblown expectations. When the results expected are realistic, it becomes a
natural outcome.
Never have
illogical assumptions
We live with
assumptions. The most part of the day is wasted sometimes in assuming about
somebody or something. As the very word - assume means you have taken it for
granted or you believed, the truth never showing up. Further, if the
assumptions are illogical they create a very big load on our psyche. Illogical
assumptions vary from thinking about how others think about us to becoming a
Super Human. Fancying for fun is fine but never otherwise.
Never expect
fantasized miracles (miracles are already happening every moment in our life. Learn
to notice them)
We have a
childhood phrasing to expect miracles. We haven’t been taught to experience or
see the miracles that are happening around us every moment. We have been
brought up to believe Cinderella stories, or some other glorified miraculous
stories or unrealistic faiths in the name of instilling confidence, which have
venomously spoiled the practical thinking faculty during our childhood. Since
then we have started to believe in miracles of the sort we have heard and never
experienced. We have grown up to be impractical at the core of our psyche. At
least now the time has come to really believe in ourselves. Understand our
capabilities and rely only on them. If you have to think of miracles, they are
happening every moment around us like the flower blossoming at the touch of sun
rays, cells multiplying at an unparalleled speed, earth constantly rotating
without you noticing it…and what not! If we learn to be one with nature, what
we explore and experience every second goes beyond our imagination and miracles
become day to day experiential realities in life!
Listening to the body
Absolute health will
be an effortless phenomenon if we open ourselves to the natural techniques
offered to us since the bygone era of wise living. The secret of health lies in
our capability to listen to our body intently, in listening to what it needs, in
understanding its messages, warnings and whispers. When trained properly health
becomes a natural phenomenon. For example, let us take a simple day to day
activity like drinking water. We have to drink water as per the needs of the
body. When we feel thirsty only we drink water and not because we have to drink
as per the rules laid down by water therapists or as per the researches made in
regard to body’s necessity of a certain quantity of water. We have to stop
water intake exactly when the body says it has had enough. You have to be so
much aware while sipping water that you know exactly when to stop. Body knows,
until and unless the very faculty of internal monitoring has lost its balance. We
also should note that even if that faculty has lost its balance we can restore
it back by listening to body’s warnings…!
Learn to
satisfy your ego but never feed it
Finally it is
all about satisfying your ego. If we look at our life we are striving to
satisfy ourselves every moment. At this very moment we are at the helm of
affairs within ourselves. But we should understand be realistic about how much is
enough to be happy and healthy. Your effort to keep yourself fit, your efforts
to keep yourself competent (and not competing), successful, loving, attractive
etc. shall be to satisfy your ego and not to feed it, as in being over
concerned about success, envying success of others, anger, irritability,
desperation etc., as such unhealthy and overburdening emotions surely spur out
of inefficiency and the moment such emotions are felt we should understand
something has gone wrong and something needs to be done to rectify the same. If
not, sooner we get to a situation where we have only regrets. Even the so
called negative emotions have their place in our life. Anger can make things
work where smile fails. But you should learn to use anger for better cause
before anger uses you for an uglier effect. If we learn the art of placing the
emotions where they belong and using them when they become positively useful we
have started an easier journey towards health.
Keep your
body fit and flexible through regular practice of properly learnt, inexpensive
but truly effective, effortless and enjoyable yogic methods
It is about choosing
which yogic method is the right one! As the popularity has increased about the
yogic methods to resolve serious health issues, the spurious practices have
also exponentially increased because of the yoga instructors who have no
understanding of the intrinsic disciplines, dogmas and the details involved in
the practice of therapeutic yoga. It is not just about knowing how to do
asanas, pranayamas, mudras or anything that come under the purview of yoga, but
it is more about how to use them, for what and when. The person in need should
be prescribed
·
The right yogic prescription
which involves
o
Asanas,
o
Pranayamas,
o
Mudras,
o
Kriyas,
o
Bandhas,
o
Dietary regulations,
o
Attitudinal corrections to be incorporated
in day to day living etc.
·
The right combination
·
The right sequence
·
The right technique to be adopted
·
The right time to adopt the
required method
This involves a serious
and a careful study of the science of yoga. Just like nothing is absolute in
this universe even yogic method of living too has its share of limitations. It
needs a lot of understanding, theoretical as well as practical, on the part of
the yoga instructor and perseverance and dedication on the part of the yoga
practitioner to make it yield the magical results. Then, a bit of practical
outlook (considering healers’ point of view) towards application of yogic
methods for a particular problem at hand is all it takes to heal a person.
With all said
and done…, the attitude only matters most…!
Very important
thing to learn in life is to
“Suffer
the wound to the extent of the wound and not a bit more than that”.
The moment the
above state is reached, at least half of the problem is solved instantly. The
rest half needs an inquisitive mind without confusions of complex logic or
self-centered greed or undue importance of the self.
By
healing ourselves we shall initiate a principled movement
“Healthier
Happier and contented society”
Thursday, July 1, 2010
Meditation
It is really Transcendental meditation that helps relax. One must practice some kind of meditation in one's life as it keeps him and his surroundings lively, compassionate and generous. Meditate if you have to enjoy the life as it is...! Jai Gurudev!
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